Weeks ago, when I first saw this topic on the schedule I decided I wouldn't be posting since it wasn't something I had knowledge of. Now that has changed since my oldest is officially an adult. For some reason that development shocked me a bit.
While I no longer mentor him academically - his university studies involve subjects outside my area of expertise - I am pleased to say that my husband and I are still mentoring him in other areas. He often seeks our advice or input on issues. Whether it be the merits of accepting an invitation to join the committee of a particular club or the balancing act of course selection he still seeks our input, not because he can't make decisions by himself (in every case so far his reasoning process has been impeccable) but because he genuinely values our input.
I firmly be live that the respectful relationship we built with him over the years is the reason for his stance. The relationships you build with your children when they are younger will affect how willing they are to be mentored by you when they are older.
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So true! Thank you for the reminder about this! :0)
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